Showing posts with label islam. Show all posts
Showing posts with label islam. Show all posts

Friday, 18 October 2013

Islam and Comedy

Let’s get started:
I spent my formative years listening to Jumuah khutbahs in Mosques every Friday and listening to the latest comedic experiments at Cool Runnings on Sundays. This was my routine for a good number of years. This, some academic endeavours, the occasional book, formed my ideas about the world around me.

I’ve been doing comedy things for 3 years now but I’m still getting used to the “comedian” label. In that time I’ve spent much less time in comedic spaces than academic (more recently corporate) ones and this has successfully created some serious seriousness within me. I’ve also spent a significant amount of time in religious spaces – mosques, lectures, discussions, organisations – all with Islam as the focus. I’m currently trying to reconcile these currents into thoughts around what it means to be a Muslim comedian.

The serious stuff:
I begin, like a well-trained philosopher, with questions.

Why do comedy? Can comedy be for the pleasure of God? What purpose does it serve? Why do Muslim comedians come under criticism from their communities? Is there a way to position yourself to appease society, conscious and God Almighty? What are the concerns of non-Muslim comedians, the moral atheists, agnostics, Christians, Jews…?

I’ve been collecting the ideas necessary to provide answers to some of these over a few years and I hope that I can articulate them with some coherence. Some of the ideas fascinated me, some were dumb but on the whole I was left feeling more secure knowing that what I was about to do was worth doing - in case anyone asked, including myself.

(...and obviously more questions were encountered along the way...and that's when I knew the philosophy was working)

Comedy as art:
Comedy is a platform to tell stories. Stand-up comedy is now professionalised and commoditized (like everything in a well-functioning capitalist system) so that people who are good at it can make a living from it. It’s a competitive art of self-expression with instantaneous feedback from the crowd.

I refer to comedy as story-telling because a large component of it is self-expression. Through the comedy of someone like Chris Rock I have greater understanding of what it is to be an African American, an American, a man, a rich man,  a minority, a husband, a father, a voter and whatever other parts of his identity he wishes to express on stage. Riaad Moosa gives audiences insight into what it is like to be a doctor, a Muslim, an Indian, a South African. And the lists go on.

This is not just therapeutic for the one doing the expression but serves as social glue for people to be able to relate to one another. Strangers can use insights gained through comedy to have a snapshots into the lives of people they might encounter everyday but never get to know if they weren’t exposed to this “type” of person before, through comedy. In a culturally diverse, pluralistic society where we all just want to get along, comedy is one of the things making this a daily reality.

The Department of Community Development should be sponsoring the next comedy tour as part of its mandate to create social cohesion.

The responsibility of a comic:
I believe that comedy also has an instructive ability. By virtue of being a voice expressed in public and this is probably where I differ from some other comedians in my thinking. Think about voices in society by taking, for example, the racial lie – that a person is superior to another based on the pigment of his/her skin. Over years, on different platforms this lie was told over and over again. Initially some would have questioned it but those voices were drowned out and eventually the majority of people accepted it. There was then a counter-movement that slowly gained ground by people speaking against this idea until we reached the point that we’re at now where a majority of people recognise that race does not contain any superiority. This change in public opinion did not happen overnight and it was not caused by a single person – rather, it was the result of every voice that spoke on this issue to have a stance and the number of voices speaking against it to become dominant.

I think it’s easy enough to be a mirror for society and get some laughs out of that. But my true respect and admiration is reserved for those that are discerning in what they reflect. A comedian’s voice can reinforce a stereotype, it can make certain behaviours acceptable, it can be a voice for social change. This does not happen immediately but if a message is repeated often enough people begin to accept it as true. If one wants to change the mind-set of a people it then takes many voices and the public ones count the most.

There will always be negotiation in terms of how best to use this voice, whether it is necessary to win the audience over before offering something they may be uncomfortable with or whether this interpretation gives too much agency to the public platform and those are debates I will gladly engage in but perhaps in another post.

The Muslim side of things:
Islam is by no means a single concept in the minds of all people. There are differing understanding and interpretations. There are different experiences of it shaped by different contexts. On the whole I find most Muslims agree that there is only one God. Muhammed (peace be upon him) was a man that was sent revelation from God, following others who were sent the same. The instructions were sent to guide people towards living righteous lives, promoting justice and remembering that they are all accountable to God after death.

If someone claims the above to be true I will accept them as a Muslim.

Some Muslims, due to various historical events and ideologies and interpretations of Islam become very focused on what is permissible within Islam. There is also contention on who is permitted to declare something permissible. I think that much of this debate is counter-productive and would prefer to present my own experiences to allow people to decide things for themselves.

What was written above about comedy being a form of self-expression and instructive voice encourages me to perform comedy and do so for the pleasure of my Creator. The revelation also places other conditions on the type of comedy that I will do.

The following guidance was written by Ahmad El-Shaf’ei who studied Islamic Studies in English at Al-Azhar University on the topic of A Sense of Humour in Islam.

1) Don’t insult anyone by your jokes.

Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala) says what means: “O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one’s] faith. And whoever does not repent – then it is those who are the wrongdoers.” (Al-Hujurat 49, Verse 11) This verse reflects the importance of being mindful of what you say even whilst you have a banter and joke with others.

2) Don’t frighten anyone as a joke.

We’ve all played a trick on a friend or two at one point perhaps creeping up on them in the dark, however we should refrain from casting fear into peoples’ hearts. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “It is not lawful to any Muslim to frighten another Muslim.” (Ibn Hajar)

3) Don’t lie to make people laugh

Sometimes, in our attempts to humour others one can fall into the trap of shaytan by exaggerating or telling false tales however we should remember it is forbidden to lie in Islam. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) instructed us to be truthful in making people laugh.

4) Don’t joke or laugh excessively

Unfortunately we are often culprit to this type of behaviour in a world which teaches us to ‘live in the moment’ however we can be so excessive in our laughter or joking that we lose sight of reality. I am not suggesting one should not have a laugh, but to avoid losing focus of the fact that this life is temporal and ultimate joy is in the Hereafter. Excessive laughter also hardens the heart and whilst it’s not forbidden to be happy, cheerful, or joyous and have a good time – remember your elation should be in moderation.

5) The best laugh is a big smile

Is a principle that can be derived from the Prophetic seerah. And as we have been taught in many ahadith that we should: ”Never disdain a good act even a small one, even if meeting a friend of yours with a smiling face” (Muslim) So next time your caught with a frowning face, embrace the sunnah and smile!

This piece was written for a general audience and while I agree with most of what was written there are some ideas that I find problematic and would like to give an opinion on. My critique is that the things said by the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) have to be understood in the time and context they were said and those same principles must be applied in today’s context. Very often a single Hadith is taken to justify something and I then come across a Hadith that implies something different leaving me critical of Islam when it is really the scholar’s scholarship that needed further scrutiny.

Take the following 2 Hadith that contradict what was said above:
“Once, an old woman came up to him and asked for paradise. He said, “Old women do not enter the paradise.” The woman started crying. As she started leaving the room, the Prophet, showing his subtle sense of humor, stopped her and said, “Old women will become young before entering the heaven.” (Tirmadhi)

It’s quite clear that being reduced to tears, the woman was offended by what the Prophet (pbuh) said. The lesson I take from this is that firstly the Prophet (pbuh) had a sense of humour and secondly that sometimes the line may be crossed but clarify the joke as soon as possible.

“One of his companions was Zahir, who used to trade in metal objects. Once the Prophet was passing by the bazaar, he saw Zahir and playfully grabbed him from behind and said, “Will anyone buy this slave?” Zahir laughed and said, “O Messenger of Allah, whoever buys this slave will be in loss.” The Prophet smiled and said, “In Allah’s eyes, your value is high.” 

It is clear that the Prophet (pbuh) lied in this case. Zahir was not a slave for sale but this is what the Prophet (pbuh) said he was. From this I think it’s clear that when the established social context is jovial and the people around you are aware of the joke being a joke then the lie creates no deceit and is then acceptable and while this might not be the case always it is defeinitely the case in most instances of stand-up comedy. The audience is party to an unwritten agreement in which they accept that certain things may be exaggerated, hypothetical or untrue but their acceptance of this means they’re not being deceived.

My understanding is intended as further guidance for myself in the comedy that I do, or would aim to do.

Current context:
The work done in South Africa by Muslim comedians is incredible. The older comedians like Joey Rasdien and Riaad Moosa have been successful in producing films, TV series, sketch shows, one man shows, international tours and more. They have dealt with criticism successfully enough for younger Muslim comics to not have to defend their choice to perform. I’m grateful for this and it also leaves me with a sense of responsibility to do this comedy thing properly. The stories of Muslims not told by us will certainly be told for us and that’s not something we can argue if we do not rise to the challenge.

In writing this I came across stories about Muslim comedians internationally. A comedian named Shazia Mirza was attacked while she was on stage for being a female Muslim comedian. I was shocked that this could ever happen. The fact that I’m a South African Muslim comedian means that I wouldn’t ever have to worry about something like that. Comedians performing in some of the Gulf States could easily be arrested for speaking against their political leaders, another thing I don’t have to worry about. However, with these freedoms and the work done by those before us comes the responsibility to take comedy to the next level, to be critical about the things we say and how we say them and to master the art of getting the laugh but not forgetting the message.


My conclusion:
1. Comedy is useful for society.
2. It is useful for Muslims to be involved in comedy.
3. The type of comedy done by Muslims has certain limits and restrictions.

This view finds common ground with Sufyan ibn `Uyaynah's position. Sufyan was an eighth-century Islamic religious scholar from Mecca. He was from the third generation of Islam referred to as the Tābi`u al-Tābiʻīn, "the followers of the followers" – those that met those, who met those, who met the Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him)

A man said to Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah, “Joking is not right, it is to be denounced.”
He replied, “Rather it is Sunnah, but only for those who know how to do it and do it at the appropriate time.”

[Sunnah: something done by the Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) or something he was in favour of]

Further reading - 
Azhar Osman wrote a piece on Islamic Comedy in a publication called humor(ph) (I haven’t been able to get hold of it)

Surprisingly detailed wikipedia post on Islamic Humour: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islamic_humour


Chapter in Tirmidhi on the Joking of Nabi Muhammed SAW: http://www.inter-islam.org/hadeeth/st35.htm

El-Shafa’ei’s post on “A Sense of Humour in Islam”: http://productivemuslim.com/sense-of-humour-in-islam/#ixzz2UUyJ4GBd 



Friday, 9 August 2013

Ritualize x Spiritualize.

 Haven't blogged in a while! But I have a new laptop and it seems so fresh and so clean that I'm finally inspired!

 So it's the end of Ramadaan for us Muslims - the month in which we fast from sunrise to sunset as a way to strengthen our faith, submit to God and get closer to God. Essentially. It's a time I sincerely enjoy because of the calm, peace, focus and spiritual awareness it brings to my life. Honestly though, it can also be a difficult time for some because of the intense change of lifestyle and the refocusing of priorities it requires. It's also easy for the average young person to become bogged down and even overwhelmed or frustrated by certain types ascribing all sorts of cultural expectations and rights and wrongs to the lives of other Muslims, irrespective of their intents. Sometimes, it also encroaches on my self-identity, mostly because I try to be better than I usually am which can be a struggle. But over the years, I've learned something so super important about this month -  it really is a beautiful and specific time to do your own best to be a better Muslim and a better person,  to enhance your own sense of spirituality and strengthen your own faith.


In the midst of this, we're all trying to be better by fulfilling the ritualistic aspects that our religions requires from us... things like keeping our fasts and looking after our prayers, reading the Quraan more and even other ways of respecting this month of mercy and forgiveness. This in and of itself has many benefits and advantages in the journey to becoming a better Muslim and the worth of establishing these rituals goes without saying. If I must say, I'd say that doing these things - that we sometimes neglect, gives us the feeling of being more connected to God, reminds us and makes us more of aware of what is required from us in our religion and helps us become better at being Muslims. I call these practises 'rituals' but that doesn't take away from the spiritual nature of them.

Speaking about spirituality, I've been thinking that it's all good and well to focus on being better Muslims and people through these rituals, but I think it's just as important to have spiritual, human goals to focus on throughout this month as a fast and easy way to try and heal and change things that are our issues as human beings.

What I mean by this is that we should try and deal with any internal turmoil/secret wars that we have within ourselves. (If you don't know what I'm talking about here, I think maybe you need to live more or your life is perfect and I hate you a little ).  I'm saying put a spotlight on the internal sources of pain, problems, hurt, baggage that you carry. Stare it in the face. A very cool Lady and hero of mine once said, "Marry the darkness, marry what is difficult about your life, bear your struggles close to your heart and  have it be something you are proud of as opposed to something that you are ashamed of". And this is what I mean here too. And this is what I've been trying to do.

 This, coupled with the spiritual growth we experience through the rituals of this month, can only mean good things. If not during this month, then when can we focus on our ghosts...At some point, we have to let go of old issues, because they're old and we're getting old and there are new issues waiting to come into our lives, by nature of our progression, and they deserve a chance to make us suffer too.

 Here are some things I've been working on to overcome in my own life through focus, reflection, writing discussion and prayer during this month:

1) Forgiving the Lady Gaga email writer

I am a Lady Gaga fan - I love the woman passionately and not just on a superficial level, but on a much deeper level of understanding, supporting and appreciating what she actually stands for. I've never been ashamed of this or any other inspirations/loves I have and I probably never will be. So last year, when my journo friend asked me to be interviewed for an article in the Saturday Star as one of Lady Gaga's biggest fans, I was down! Especially since I'd just finished my Master's degree in the meanings of femininity, gender and sexuality created in Lady Gaga's music and videos and thought I could maybe use the article to promote my research. And it was a thrill to be in the newspaper, I wont lie. It was a super fun experience for me. I didn't expect people to make such a big deal about it  especially since it was aesthetically fabricated - I borrowed CDs and posters and all sorts of Lady Gaga stuff from teenagers I know trying to seen like a fanatic fan. I prefer to think of myself as an intellectual fan and be fancy.

Anyway, after that was published, some Muslim person,  from the safety and anonymity of a computer screen, decided to pen and spread an email to the Muslim community to the gist of "Look at this Muslim girl who likes Lady Gaga in the newspaper - Haraam!,  We must protect our girls! Imagine if this was your daughter! Oh the shame!" along with random Quranic verses and Hadith to justify point in a very disjointed way and self-serving way. For a long while, even up till very recently, this really affected me.

I was never embarrassed or ashamed about this ever - I was more angry and frustrated that someone out there in their self-righteousness felt it appropriate to make judgement calls on a percentage of my identity and the on top of that shape the whole shabang to make me an example of a bad kid and even worse, a bad Muslim. I do think others don't like and others do things I don't like but luckily for all of us we are not God. I finally think I'm over this now because I've come to realise that whoever that person is, he is a judgemental freak who wasn't right about the way he perceived and painted me then and is still not right now. So sorry for him. In addition, I am nobody's example of anything. I am just a person living my own life, deciding who to be,  on my own journey - as we all are. Guys, leave people to live their own lives and focus on bettering yourself. Judging others just exposes your fear-based perceptions, self-righteousness and short sightedness. Don't do it. As a modern and aware generation I really think that we have to try and evolve beyond judging others to make ourselves feel better. We should be an ambitious generation, pushing new ideas, creating dopeness.  Anyway,  I finally forgive you,  anonymous-Lady-Gaga-email-writer and I hope you don't do that again to anyone. Unless you're gonna be speaking about yourself, which should be your primary concern - not me or anyone else.           







 

2) Dreams coming in their own time

I've found yet another passion in life  and that's teaching English. It just came to me, I developed a talent for it and I love it. I've also had this strong desire for over the last two years to just get out in to the world, adventure, travel and just be. It's been a legit goal I've had and still have.

So, last year I really went for it and put myself through the strenuous and lengthy process of  applying for a teaching position with an agent. Now here's the weird part - most people who attempt this get a job quick and easy. I've seen it happen to so many people I know. So, I was expecting the same to happen to me. But ooh no, not meee. Through so many applications and interviews, I still couldn't get a job! A little disheartened, I gave myself a break from applying for a few months and decided to start again towards the end of the year. Then something weird happened again. I somehow managed an interview at DSTV -the company that I always planned on working for one day. Not only that, but after a process of interviews I eventually got the freaking job. Not an internship, but a proper job in broadcast media. The long term dream! I was like whaaaatishappeninglife!

I won't lie, the day I got the call to say I got the job, I sobbed and sobbed, obviously not the natural reaction, just because I was so sad to put travel plans on hold again and now pretend to be an adult - not what I wanted. I was just like why why why am I not getting what I wanted and why are my efforts always being met with disappointment.  I ended up taking the job because it was an opportunity I didn't think I should miss and so far it's been really great and I'm thankful to have it. I really do believe that everything happened for a reason and what's meant for you will come to you in its perfect and divine time. And this is what I have learnt and accepted -you can't force what you want to happen when you want it to happen but sometimes you just have to submit to the will and plan of God who knows your heart and knows what's best for you. Travelling is not what's in my plan right now and that's cool. And that's the peace I've made, although, still believing and aiming to travel in the near future. Don't know how or where or when, but I know a way will be made for this and all my dreams.

A fellow teacher at WITS told me the other day that he overheard me speaking to someone about my plans and motivation to travel and teach and because of that he decided he it was something he also wanted to do. So he applied and he is off to China in a few weeks. Cause of me and my big mouth. Which ended up being a good thing for someone else so that's good.











3) Appreciating my people

My twin sister has decided to leave me all alone with my crazy parents and go ahead and get her self married. I'm so happy for her and for her dreams becoming a reality and for the awesome step she's about to take in life. She gets married in October and as the time nears, I'm all of a sudden getting very sentimental and stuff, thinking this is the last Ramadaan/Eid she's going to spend with us even to the point of  ohmygosh this is the last 1st of August she'll be staying with us ever. It's silly and dramatic but I'm really going to miss her. She's been my best friend all these years and I've only realised it now.  I find myself being very overly compassionate, considerate open and good to her, knowing that she's moving out. My way of compensating for the fact that she'll be gone soon I guess.

And I realised that this is the way I should be living and treating everyone I love on a day to day basis, just because I love them and not for any specific reason. In drawing parallels with marriage and leaving, the thought of death comes up (maybe just in this context, maybe not haha) because I realise that people I love can leave temporarily and even worse, permanently. Its so important to appreciate each other, especially your family, because life is short and ever-changing. I realised in this month because of my sentimentality with my sister,  that I need to be treating my family like gold, and not only in certain circumstances, but every single day. I need to love them openly, be compassionate and forgiving, share myself authentically, do anything to be of service to them and appreciate them for who they are right now and not who I think they should be. I want to do all this irrespective of how different we are, of how we sometimes don't understand each other, of how I hold things against them and of how their limitations in life affect my free spirit. Irrespective of my perceptions, I am going to appreciate my loved ones everyday. I know that they treasure me and love me unconditionally and I know that they will do anything for me - because I see it everyday but mostly don't realise its real worth and meaning because I am too busy getting in my own way. I am blessed to have them and they deserve to know it.


 





 

 

 So those are my stories. These are things that month of Ramadaan has shown me and I am glad to be changing and progressing. I don't know where all that honesty came from but I thank you for being the ear to my inside voice.

How was your Ramadaan/life this month? Did you put any of your ghosts to bed? Holla back at me in the comments section so I don't seem like a weirdo.

Hope Ramadaan has been amazing for all the Muslims reading this. May all your prayers be answered and hope you all have a wonderful Eid :)



Nx






Monday, 8 October 2012

Islam and Cities

I love knowledge so I must love cities. Cities are places where people come together. People who are  full of ideas. Sharing ideas pushes thought forward; thought translates into actions and events which stimulate further thought. This is one of the reasons I think that being born in Joburg has been a huge blessing. People from all over South Africa, Africa and the world end up here sharing their thoughts and ideas, enriching my life by merely existing and expressing themselves in this concentrated environment which is the city.

As Muslims we have a duty to examine the world around us; we are to marvel at its complexities but also recognize and understand it. How many of us take the time to marvel at the urban environment that surrounds us and think about what makes it work? What is it working towards, who decides its direction, its future, its priorities. In this last question I find a close tie between cities and politics.




Here's a piece I came across in Ahmad Farid Moustapha's, "Islamic Values in Contemporary Urbanism": 


"When Mawlay Idris decided to build the city of Fas (Fez) in northern Africa (Morocco), having sketched the ground-plan of the city and before construction got underway, he recited the following prayer:

"O my Lord! You know that I do not intend by building this to gain
pride or to show off; nor do I intend hypocrisy, or reputation, or
arrogance. But I want You to be worshipped in it, Your laws, limits
and the principles of Your Qur'an and the guidance of Your Prophet to
be upheld in it, as long as this world exists. Almighty, help its
dwellings to do righteousness and guide them to fulfill that.
Almighty, prevent them from the evil of their enemies, bestow Your
bounties upon them and protect them from the sword of evil. You are
able to do all things." 
       
 There are cities in this world that have people as their highest priority. Corutiba for instance shuts down its busiest road once a week and rolls out massive rolls of paper that children from the city are free to go colour on. Their city is designed for people. Makkah is designed for the worship of Allah, one could argue: the city is built around the Kaabah, all development that takes place is done with the understanding that people that come to Makkah come to see the Kaabah and worship Allah. Dubai is a commercial centre, it has little to offer once the oil runs out and so all profits from the oil are being invested into tourist attractions. Qatar is the same with its gas reserves being converted into modern art museums (2) . The intentions that drive cities fascinates me - it's where values meet the real world and in their expression lives are shaped and determined.


Johannesburg is the city of Gold… most people that live here do so for that reason til this day, well cash/jobs not really gold anymore. What does that mean for the quality of life? I’m sure we have engaged in conversation about the quality of life in Cape Town versus Joburg and how that impacts on people. 

Have we asked how our city impacts on our Islam or how our Islam impacts on it?